Colombia dating lady
Once the girls click on the fact that you are not a local, a ‘gringo’, that will get their curiosity buzzing.
Your biggest problem is to control yourself and not latch onto the first beauty you see. It’s going to get you further into a relationship faster than if you know nothing. You don’t have to be conversational perfect, but some romantic phrases and getting around with taxis, restaurants and greetings won’t take you more than a couple of weeks.
Certain cultural differences do seem to pop up though, and have been reported on widely on the internet too (check out Medellin Living and Expat Chronicles for examples).
Speaking to my friend Tim, he suggested that in his experience women were far less likely to approach men than back home in the UK, since gender roles are perhaps more pronounced in Latin American culture.
Once the ‘pick-up’ is out the way and you’re on your way to relationship-dom, I’ve found Colombian girls to be very much like girls (and people) all around the world: It depends on the person.
Though theories abound that Colombians are more jealous, less faithful, more loyal, more giving, warmer, wilder and everything between, the truth is people tend to attribute their own ideas of what Latinas are like to the women here.
Walking the beaches, you, at least, get to see the girls in a lot less than their usual day wear.
Colombia itself is a country with a population of roughly 47 million people, and is located on the northwest coast of South America.My friends, however, will often report to the contrary, stating that in varying ways Colombian girls are very different to those back home.I’m reluctant to make any sweeping generalisations about the fairer sex in Colombia and put most of it down to the fact that people are very similar in most cultures, but as a foreigner you only peak into certain aspects of the culture and, moreover, tend to attribute aspects of the culture you experience to the culture in general, when it can easily just be one person’s tick.I’ve had far more jealous girlfriends back home, as have my friends, and yet when they complain about jealousy somehow it’s always attributed to the girl being Colombian. Anyway, sure there are patterns and cultural differences here, but don’t expect anything radically different.Speak a little Spanish, dance a little salsa and drink a little Aguardiente, but above all that, just be respectful and a nice guy.
South American countries are somewhat like the SE Asian countries with regard to their women.